When children experience the death of a parent or their immediate families evokes strong feelings of the entire team. Besides others, reminds us of our own childhood and children we have or hope to obtain. We feel how we can hurt doing something wrong or saying Facing sensitivity. Usually in our efforts to protect children, t ‘excluded’ t isolated. This protects a child from the truth means to let in disarray, without defense against fantasies and helpless with the feelings of.